The DRC Family Code organises marital life on a discriminatory basis. Married women have a low degree of protection with regards to family matters. It become even worse for widowed in rural areas. Law n°87/010 of the family code, accounts in its first paragraph: « the present law aimed at unifying and at adapting rules which touch the rights of the person and the family to the Congolese mentality ». Moreover, article 215 limits the autonomy of the wife. Article 444 says that the man is the head of the household and the woman must obey him. This put women as second class citizen.
Furthermore, if the husband is deemed absent by a court or if he dies, the wife must share the running of the household with one of her husband’s relatives. Concerning inheritance rights, article 758 gives preferential treatment to the children of the deceased but does not discriminate between women and men within the second category of heirs. However, following the death of a husband, in many tribal traditions and mentalities; wives must share the running of the household with a male relative of the deceased – in part to compensate for women’s lack of ability to sign legal acts. In many cases, the property and several items are confiscated from the widows, in total impunity.
Lack of the functioning of Justice fuels impunity. Human rights abuses is a serious issue in the DRC and it is true that these abuses occur at the top of society in terms of high level abuses of political power but it must also be tackled at the grassroots levels, where local people are abused of their human rights because the system fails to protect them.
3. Do you have any statistics on how often the husband's family takes the land?
There are currently no available statistics on these issues as there have not been any studies or surveys undertaken about these issues on a national level in the DRC. This is why some colleagues widows and I have being campaigning on these issues and trying our best with limited resources to support widows as well as form a network of widows to raise awareness, undertake studies and write reports about our own conditions. I have been myself subjected to abuses by my husband family but manage to work hard for 8 years in order to gain my rights.
4. How does this make woman and children more vulnerable?
Many expropriated widows are forced to live in highly deprived areas in poor conditions of hygiene and sanitation, with no running water or electricity, easily prone to insecurity. Young widows with no education remain illiterate and often try to financially support their young children through informal trade of vegetables or fruits.
In many cases, widow’s children are an acutely vulnerable social group, as they have no access to education, ending up begging on the streets, in prison or are easily recruited by warlords and criminal gangs...
There must be more focus and understanding of the fact that if widows are marginalized and have no rights that this has a huge impact on their children and the next generation of children.
5. Is there a social stigma for widows in the DRC?
Although, in the DRC, it is a national well known fact that many widows carry the sole responsibility for many households survival in the DRC, particularly in war torn areas. However, it is also a well known fact that widows are among the poorest of the poor and face multiple problems. Widows have increased vulnerability to physical, mental and various forms of sexual violence.
It is a fact that widows are more than ever vulnerable to violence perpetrated by family members, friends, neighbours and even in some churches. Many widows are still the victims of accusations of witchcraft, social alienation, ostracism, harmful practices and humiliation. It is well known fact that tradition and custom deprive many of them of inheritance, property rights and land because after the death of their husbands, their houses and properties are confiscated. They receive little or no living allowance – many allowances are not only insignificant (less than $ 2) but often misappropriated by male relatives.
6. Are widows at greater risk to sexual assault?
Congolese widows are in the same situation like all women in the DRCongo, but could be more at risk as they are stigmatised and not protected in many communities. The situation of gender-based sexual violence, is worrying in the DRC. Few collected reports by some NGOS show the numerous cases of widows who are believed to have been abused, but because of the stigma, many remains silent and scared to report these crimes. In the other hand even if widows reports these crimes, the justice system often fails to punish the perpetrators of the crimes, particularly because the widows are poor and cannot afford to pay for lawyers.
The reality in the DRC context of conflict is that widows are not only victims of conflicts but they are one group seriously affected by sexual violence that has increased due to the armed conflict. They faced a number of circumstances which increased their risk of HIV infection in gender-specific ways. Displaced widows reportedly often had no choice but to resort to multiple sexual relations or polygamy in order to support themselves and their children. Stigmatisation, homelessness and poverty force many widows and their daughters to being trapped in prostitution, faced rape, unwanted pregnancies and health complications.
This neglected category of women continue to victims of brutal horrific sexual violence after the conflicts. Many widows have contracted sexual transmitted diseases, particularly HIV/AIDS, with no access to healthcare and therapy. Furthermore, many HIV affected widows are reported to continue to care for elderly and provide daily survival for their household. These widows are fighting both a virus and systemic discrimination. They are trying to overcome the threat of HIV/AIDS and unequal access to medication.
CONCLUSION
To improve the position and situation of widows, it is imperative invest to achieve the MDG objective 3 of women’s empowerment, we recommend:
I. That the DRC Government demonstrates clear political will for effective support of widows, to mainstream widowhood issues in policy / practice and encourage analysis and national discussions that allows for an understanding of the roles and needs different categories of women; particularly those stigmatised by widowhood and HIV/AIDS. The State should better assume its responsibilities toward widows and HIV/AIDS patients.
II. Donors, through their different structures and agencies should encourage and assist program that support widows and HIV/AIDS affected women. That the NGOs develop a network across the region to exchange information and learn from each other’s experiences.
III. Increased funding for research on widowhood issues in DRC – research that is lead by and consults with widows. The Congolese Authorities and the International community could support a Union office to collect information and statistics for evaluation, publication and the monitoring of widows and acutely stigmatised/vulnerable HIV/AIDS affected widows, as well as ensuring widows’s protection.
IV. Donor support, through training and other resources, widows’ groups to work with the DRC State to fill the gap in data on widowhood through utilizing “mapping and profiling” surveys which can reveal information on their life-styles hitherto unavailable to policy makers and outside actors.
V. To support, both in terms of finance and capacity, the creation of a national Federation or Union of Widows in DRC. This national structure will act as a support network for widows in the DRC regardless of their social and health status and will work for the promotion of rights of widows, reinforce strategies for the protection and the empowerment of widows, and take concrete actions such as lobbying, advocacy, campaigning, and education. The Union will promote a dynamics of solidarity between widows to prevent abuses by family and by the legal system in the absence of State authority. The Union would use media for raising awareness and also for the reporting of abuses and could support and promote activities that generate revenues for widows through microfinance projects.
VI. Engage with and encourage alternative masculinities, as well as including men in “women’s” projects, particularly projects on violence against women and those affected by HIV/AIDS, with the aim of reducing the systematic abuse of these vulnerable groups and reducing the social stigma of widowhood and HIV/AIDS.
VII. Improve access to justice and health care – gender training should not be limited to top level justice and health sector actors, it is important to also target grassroots level justice actors such as local police, village chiefs, religious and community leaders, as well as doctors, nurses and other healthcarers.
The DRC government must urgently address the situation of DRC widows and their children, It is imperative that these women are included in the consultative processes essential for developing concrete policies, which will only be effective if based on real information about their needs, roles, experiences and hopes. Widowhood issues must be prioritized in all strategies to achieve the Millennium Development Goals (MDG).